What am i looking from life? I read a thought which said that the so called ethics or the code of ethics ...or even values for that matter were a doctrine of some set of individuals at some point in time who represented the society. Each time the society would change and so the norms should but that doesn't happen...we are forced and coerced to follow the norms set by the society then....and some supporters try to find an explanation and logic in it.
I wonder where would the world stand without the reformists that it has seen.
Well the point that came to my mind was absolutely another ....i was kind of retrospecting .....and thinking abt the carnal desires which refuse to stop emerging in spite of knowing their transient nature, does domination of pleasure surpass the effect of all other of our emotions. But I also see situations where one puts aside these desires and also looks forward to other smaller pleasures in life.
I see fulfilment of life in togetherness...i mean positive togetherness.
And this positive togetherness thrives on acknowledgements of everyday things however small. The ones who have known this secret live life others simply carry on. It is not a difference of opinion which is responsible to make matters worse in a relationship it is the difference of perspectives. Nevertheless an attitude of appreciation and acknowledgment breed respect and can bring in hope in any relationship.
What if this attitude is lacking? Well if both the parties lack then the relationship sustains on the basis of ignorance is bliss or snaps instantly. No bruises only blows. Worse scenario is when one lacks and the other possesses it. Then the show is on ....it begins with expectations and ends sadly with reluctant, inevitable acceptance.
Is it wrong to influence or imbibe gratitude in a person to bring in happiness in a relationship? Is accepting what you've got as if you are bestowed with it the right way to carry on with life? Well where is happiness?
I think it is criminal to sustain the pressure of such a relationship for years just on the pretext of having made a choice in an absolutely unguided, immature and inexperienced environment.
Well if only you knew the strain of imbibing positivities, which come naturally to so many of us, into those who ignore the faculty of consciousness and man's choice of action then you will know the plight of the one who has to do so. By the time he gets lucky, which is rare, life has become a stack of too many incomplete lists.
Well for the other person life is a series of disappointments and instructions. By the time they drop their inhibitions their adapting energy and ability give away and they embrace inaction in the face of futility of age and time. Transformation is very rare.
Let us see where does this psychological impact lead to in the due course of living....
Life in gross becomes a see-saw of hope and despair, there is hope of fulfilment ( not fulfilment) one day and confirmation of despair the other. This leads you to a path full of broken pieces of pleasures and pains.
